Guilt-free VICTORY!!
Posted on 11. Jan, 2010 by Becky in Love Your Body
So, here’s the good news. You know how I constantly preach not to worry about those extra 2 pounds that you can’t seem to lose and that ruin your mood anytime you foolishly decide to step on the bathroom scale?
Disclaimer: I am about to reveal my hypocrisy.
So here’s the deal. After a Christmas vacation in Wisconsin with my family, replete with dinners out, chocolate mousse truffle, Christmas cookies up the wazoo, and Mama Mia’s garlic bread to boot (picture a french baguette soaked in so much butter that wrapping it in 12 paper sacks still soaks through onto your leather car seat), I was expecting the best-case scenario to be weight maintenance over the holidays. And I’m fine with that.
Now, don’t get me wrong, I didn’t stuff myself silly all week, nor did I quit working out. But, I certainly did not worry about what I ate. I ate what I felt like when I felt like it. I stopped eating when it I was full. No stress, no guilt.
I worked out 5 times over Christmas break listening to some great running music, not because I felt stressed that I had to, but because it was precious bonding time with my sister, who lives in Italy most of the year, and because we both enjoy it!
So, after my no-stress, no-guilt approach to the Christmas holidays, you’d think the last thing I would do is step on a scale. I am one of those who rarely weighs myself–that number is so defining! But for some crazy reason, curiosity won out, and on I stepped.
To my utter amazement, as the digital numbers flickered in the fluorescent glow of my bathroom, a number appeared that has eluded me since the birth of my darling Chloe. I had broken the 2 pound barrier! I muttered to myself in disbelief, “You’ve got to be kidding me,” stepped off the scale and promptly returned for round 2. Surely, there must be some sort of mechanical error going on.
But sure enough, the scale showed me the glorious victory sign again. YES!
So why do I share this story? To have someone to celebrate with? To reason as to why such a stupid little meaningless detail in my life would put me in such a fabulous mood for days on end?
Actually, I share to encourage YOU to stop worrying, planning, and generally feeling anxious about what you put into your mouth. I truly think there is something inside our bodies that won’t let go of that weight the more we worry about it. Relax! Be active! Choose good foods that make you feel truly good. Live your life! Enjoy your friends, your family, your relationships, and life’s celebrations with all their culinary greatness. The less you stress, the more your body will find its best place, and so will you.

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Tabs Leiataua
21. Apr, 2011
I really like how the article talks about the you need to not have guilt. You don’t need to stress out on the little things but just to remember to maintain your fitness program.
Stefanie Mayfield
23. Apr, 2011
I think there is a lot to be said about guilt and anxiety over weight adding to the weight problem itself. I too have found that when I eat as i want when I want without the guilt or over worry, I too lose weight or maintain weight – but if I am on a rigorous schedule of weight paranoia, I often times find myself not only in far more stress, but in a higher pound range as well.
@Li
16. Jul, 2011
Sometimes I feel anxiety over not working out enough or working out as hard as I could. Putting that guilt on top of that anxiety only makes it worse. Take the load off, lift yourself up! thanks for this post. Sometimes I can be a little too hard on myself